Divorce: Frequently asked questions (FAQs)
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The Divorce Process
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In South Africa, you can institute divorce proceedings in either the High Court or the Regional Magistrate’s Court that has jurisdiction over your area.
If you live in or around Paarl, Wellington, or Franschhoek, your matter can be heard at the Paarl Regional Court or the Western Cape High Court situated in Cape Town.
We can advise you on which court is best suited for your specific circumstances based on the complexity of your estate and disputes. -
To properly consult with your attorney and draft the divorce summons, you will generally need to provide:
Clear copies of your and your spouse's Identity Documents.
A copy of your Marriage Certificate.
A copy of your Antenuptial Contract (ANC), if applicable.
Copies of your children’s birth certificates (if you have minor children).
A general overview of your financial position (assets, liabilities, income, and expenses).
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The timeline depends entirely on whether the divorce is contested or uncontested:
Uncontested (Unopposed) Divorce: If you and your spouse agree on all terms (division of assets, childcare, and maintenance), a settlement agreement is drafted. Once signed, the divorce can be finalised in as little as 4 to 8 weeks, depending on the court roll.
Contested (Opposed) Divorce: If you cannot reach an agreement, the matter will go to trial. Due to court backlogs and the exchange of legal pleadings, a contested divorce can take anywhere from 1 to 3 years to finalise.
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Uncontested Divorce: Because it is a streamlined process, attorneys usually charge a fixed or capped fee.
At Snyman Attorneys, we also bill based on set milestones, ensuring you only have to pay as and when we make progress with your uncontested divorce.
Contested Divorce: This is billed on an hourly basis. Depending on the complexity, the need for expert witnesses (like forensic accountants or child psychologists), and the duration of the litigation, costs can escalate significantly. We always encourage settlement wherever possible to preserve your wealth.
Proprietary Rights
(Assets, Debts, and Pensions)
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This is largely dictated by your marital regime:
In Community of Property: All assets and liabilities acquired before and during the marriage are placed into one joint estate. Upon divorce, the net estate is divided equally (50/50). You are jointly liable for your spouse's debts.
Out of Community of Property (Without Accrual): You and your spouse have completely separate estates. What is yours remains yours, and you are not liable for your spouse's debt.
Out of Community of Property (With Accrual): Your estates remain separate during the marriage. However, upon divorce, the spouse whose estate showed a smaller financial growth (accrual) during the marriage has a claim against the spouse whose estate grew by a larger margin.
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To properly consult with your attorney and draft the divorce summons, you will generally need to provide:
Clear copies of your and your spouse's Identity Documents.
A copy of your Marriage Certificate.
A copy of your Antenuptial Contract (ANC), if applicable.
Copies of your children’s birth certificates (if you have minor children).
A general overview of your financial position (assets, liabilities, income, and expenses).
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In an uncontested divorce, parties can agree on who keeps what in their Settlement Agreement.
In a contested divorce where parties are married in community of property, the court will order the division of the joint estate, which may require assets to be sold and the proceeds divided if an agreement cannot be reached. -
Yes. Under South African law (Section 7(7) and 7(8) of the Divorce Act), a spouse's "pension interest" is deemed part of their estate for the purpose of calculating the division of assets or accrual.
A non-member spouse can be awarded a percentage or specific amount of the member’s pension interest, which the pension fund can pay out directly to the non-member spouse (or transfer to their own retirement fund) shortly after the divorce is granted. -
If you are married out of community of property, you are generally not responsible for debt incurred by your spouse.
If you are married in community of property, creditors can claim against the joint estate, and you may be held liable for debts incurred during the marriage, even after you divorce, depending on how the joint estate is wound up.
Children and Divorce
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A Parenting Plan is a written agreement drafted by the parents (often with the help of an attorney, social worker, or mediator) that outlines how they will exercise their respective parental responsibilities and rights after the divorce.
The Children’s Act requires all decisions to be made in the "best interests of the child." If parents cannot agree on certain aspects of care, a Parenting Plan is mandatory and must be endorsed by the Office of the Family Advocate.
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A comprehensive plan will provide clarity and routine, covering:
Primary Residence: Where the child will live most of the time.
Contact/Visitation: Specific schedules for weekends, mid-week visits, public holidays, and school holidays.
Maintenance: How the child's financial needs (school fees, medical aid, daily living expenses) will be met.
Major Decisions: How parents will handle decisions regarding schooling, medical treatments, religious upbringing, and international travel.
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Divorce finalises the legal end of a marriage, but co-parenting continues for years. A Parenting Coordinator (PC) is a neutral third-party professional (often an attorney or psychologist) appointed in the Parenting Plan. If parents reach a deadlock on a minor day-to-day issue (e.g., changing a weekend schedule or choosing an extramural activity), the PC can mediate and make a binding directive, saving the parents the massive cost of going back to court.
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Both parents have a common-law duty to support their children. Maintenance is calculated based on the reasonable needs of the child and the proportional financial means of each parent.
For example, if one parent earns 70% of the total combined parental income, they are generally liable for 70% of the child's reasonable expenses.
Interim Relief
(Rule 43 and Rule 58)
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A contested divorce can take years, and it is unfortunately common for a financially dominant spouse to freeze accounts, stop paying maintenance, or deny access to minor children to force an unfair settlement.
South African law provides a safety net for this: Rule 43 (High Court) and Rule 58 (Regional Court).
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These are specialised, fast-tracked court applications designed to provide temporary relief while the main divorce action is pending.
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You can approach the court for an interim order granting:
Interim Maintenance: Financial support for yourself and/or your minor children pending the final divorce.
Contribution to Legal Costs: A financially weaker spouse can claim a contribution toward their legal fees to ensure they can litigate on an equal footing.
Interim Care and Contact: Temporary rules regarding where the children reside and visitation rights.
Interim Delivery of Assets: The temporary use of a vehicle, the matrimonial home, or household furniture.
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Because these applications are designed for urgent relief, they are much faster than a trial. They are argued entirely on paper (sworn affidavits) without oral evidence.
Once filed at court, an order can typically be obtained within a matter of 2-3 months providing you with financial and emotional stability while the divorce is being finalised.
Of course, if there is urgency, the matter can be further expidited and heard on the urgent court roll. The matter can then be finalised wihtin a much shorter timeframe.
5 Star reviews from previous divorce clients
“I cannot recommend Synman Attorneys highly enough. From the start, Bertus was professional, compassionate, and exceptionally knowledgeable. Navigating a difficult legal process is never easy, but Bertus made me feel completely reassured throughout.”
“Bertus is profesioneel en het my baie gehelp. Hy tree vinnig op en dis nie n proses waar alles sloer soos uit vorige ondervinding nie. Ek beveel hom hoog aan. Hys n uitstekende prokureur.”
“At the time when I felt so isolated and alone, I reached out to Bertus Snyman @ Snyman Attorneys to assist me with my divorce. He has been on my side from Day 1 … when I started with the divorce proceedings, he was never too busy to take my calls, send a message or an e-mail, just guiding me through the process.
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